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“I stopped believing in god.”
I stopped off at a fancy supermarket yesterday on my way home from a cycle ride. I got to the till, sweaty in my cycle gear, and the assistant welcomed the woman in front of me like a long-lost friend.
“She’s so nice,” the assistant explained when it was my turn, as if by way of apologising for the time she took with her. (I didn’t mind in the least, it was nice to bask in the warmth of their conversation.)
“Is she a friend?” I asked.
“Oh no, I just see her at the checkout. I’ve been working here for twenty years,” replied my friendly assistant.
As she put my steak and salad through the scanner she continued to chat.
“I started to work here after my boyfriend died.”
“Oh I’m so sorry,” I said, a kind of automatic reaction.
“It’s OK, I have someone else now,” she continued. “I stopped believing in god though.”
That last part was emphatic, as if the loss of her god affected her more than the loss of her boyfriend — or at least that was the piece she still continued to grieve, twenty years on.
I don’t believe in god either, not that kind of old man in the sky she seemed to be pointing to, less creator and more controller.
